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How to Write Your Own"Book of Us"

DIY Activity Published February 14, 2026

#Memories #Family #Creativity
Book cover for Nia and The Missing Valentine, showing Nia and her best friend Rina sitting together surrounded by hearts and flowers.
Rina, Nia's best friend, illustrated character portrait.
#Memories

In our book, The Missing Valentine, the main character, Nia, finds herself in a tricky situation. It's Valentine's Day, the "Great Exchange" has begun, and she realizes she doesn't have a card for her best friend, Rina.

But instead of panicking, Nia realizes something important. A store-bought card with a superhero on it is nice, but it doesn't tell the real story of their friendship. So, she grabs a blank notebook and becomes an Author. She writes a book that captures their best memories, creating a gift that feels like a hug.

This year, why not encourage your child to do the same? Here is a step-by-step guide to help them write their very own "Book of Us" for a best friend, sibling, or parent.

What You Need

  • Several sheets of paper folded in half (stapled to make a booklet)
  • Markers, pencils, or crayons
  • A little bit of quiet time

Chapter 1: The Trust Moment

In the story, Nia writes about the day they met on the playground, when Rina helped her hang upside down on the monkey bars.

Prompt for your child: Write about a time your friend helped you be brave. Did they help you learn a new game? Did they hold your hand when you were scared?

Chapter 2: The Big Adventure

Nia writes about their class trip to the Aquarium, where they saw a scary "River Dragon" and got splashed by playful dolphins.

Prompt for your child: Write about a fun place you went together. Was it a park? A museum? Or maybe just a really fun day in the backyard?

Chapter 3: The Cheerleader Moment

Nia writes about how she cheered for Rina during her neighborhood cookie sale, because true friends support each other's dreams.

Prompt for your child: What is your friend really good at? Drawing? Running? Telling jokes? Write about a time you watched them do something great.

Chapter 4: The Small Tradition

Finally, Nia writes about "Friday Lunch," the twenty minutes a week they get to sit together in the cafeteria.

Prompt for your child: What is a simple thing you love doing together? Maybe it's walking to the bus stop or sharing a snack.

The Moral

Remind your child of the lesson Nia learned:

The best Valentines aren't just things you buy. They are kindness, shared every day. By writing these stories down, they are telling their friend, "I remember."

Happy writing! ✨